Ah, at last a peace of mind! I had been talking about it for at least a year and a half, but for some reason held back and didn't want to seem like one of those obsessive crazy mothers. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore and didn't care if I was an obsessive crazy mother. I bought a $40 otoscope three weeks ago off of eBay that claimed to be the 'Very Best Otoscope' to check Brynn's ears. After Brynn's last double ear infection I knew I needed to be able to monitor her ears at home.
It came just a few days after ordering it and Matt was my first case study. We won't talk about what I saw in his ears! Brynn was next and she sat very still and didn't mind at all that I was looking around in her ears. I have looked at them about twice a week just to get practice seeing what is 'normal' for her. She's been a little snotty since Tuesday but hasn't been complaining her ears hurting. I last looked at them Wednesday night after her bath and they looked fine. Today after being outside doing yard work and playing for awhile she seemed all allergied up. I checked her ears and was like Whoa! Both ears looked really red, the left eardrum still looked ok, but the right did look infected to my novice eyes. She was way overdue for her nap time and said her ears didn't hurt so I just gave her some more Sudafed and some Motrin.
When she woke up I checked again and the left wasn't red anymore and the right still looked ouchy! I was convinced that she had an infection so off to Urgent Care we went. The Dr. looked in the left first and said that looks good, got the to right ear and said "Oooh. Yeah, infected!". I was right! As Dr. Mom I diagnosed my first ear infection. She started on a new antibiotic tonight. They were afraid of giving her the same one as last time since it was only two months ago and that it wouldn't work. Hopefully she won't be allergic to it!
I have been oddly giddy about the whole thing. I am very sad that Brynn is now on her 8th ear infection, but just knowing that I can help catch it at home feels like such a HUGE relief. As many ear infections as she's had we've had just as many 'false alarms'. She'll have all the same symptoms and it's just a cold. It's been so nerve-wracking to debate is this just a cold, is it now an ear infection, should I take her in, wait it out, etc.? Ahhh!!!
I highly suggest investing in an Otoscope! This is the website we were given to look at examples of how the ear should look: http://oto-scope.com/pictures.htm.